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Premises and Objectives
Premises
- The culture in which we live plays a major role in shaping our beliefs and behaviors.
- Our perceptions of the innate nature of the pre-born, infant and child are a crucial factor in determining the manner with which we care for our children
- Humankind in general, and infants/children in particular, are innately good, social, and cooperative beings
- Nature has designed mother and baby so that their needs are complementary--hers to cuddle, nurse, and nurture her child, the child to be cuddled, fed, and nurtured
- The infants needs are best met when one person--preferably mother or father--serves as primary caregiver at least during the child's preverbal years
- Our children are growing up in challenging times, and need support in developing resilience, and peacemaking and problem-solving skills
- The key to a healthy and creative parent-child relationship is our trust in the essential goodness of the infant/child, and in the complementary nature of their needs. Sourced from the spirit of the child, and supported by their larger community, this relationship is the wellspring for a wellbeing and a well planet.
- The children are our future.
Our objectives are to:
- reveal and dispel many of the myths about preborn, infants and children that perpetuate the aberrant behaviors that are destroying our planet.
- promote care of the infant/child as a whole being - body, mind, and spirit
- promote awareness of the conceiving, birthing, and tending of children as a deep privilege, a significant contribution to the wellbeing of the planet,
- spark awareness of the immanent worth of each child, and the power of a single person to impact the well being of our world
- raise the consciousness of and status of parenting so that the value of their presence in the lives of their children is fully appreciated
- recognize that investing time and care in a young child provides a return of many times the principle as the child reaches adolescent and adulthood.
- introduce and support evidence-based practices that facilitate healthy attachment between child and parent. These range from nurturing the unborn child as an aware and sensitive individual to providing a gentle, natural (intervention free) birth and providing authoritative (as contrasted with authoritarian or permissive) parenting, and supporting a child�s innate love of learning.
- support children and parents in thriving, and having fun together.
These objectives are met by dispelling a series of myths about the preborn, infants, and children.
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Child/Family Wellness
Honoring the heart, soul, and spirit of our children, our families, and our future. After more than three decades of pioneering work in adult wellness, and giving birth to a daughter, Siena, in 1993, Meryn and John realized that the more... |
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Helping Professionals
This area consists of text from Wellness for Helping Professionals, by John W. Travis, MD, and Meryn Callander. more... |
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